D knew by mid-September that he wanted to be a mummy for Halloween. I had visions of me wrapping him up in toilet paper and then going trick-or-treating in the rain. Not a pretty scenario. Luckily we found the perfect mummy costume at a store right down the street from our new house. Scary mask included, but not shown here. While at the store, B was immediately drawn to the fireman costume. I warned him that if he wanted to be a fireman, he HAD to wear the hat. HAD TO. He has a history for wanting to wear a certain costume only to cry about not wanting to wear the hat once Halloween finally arrives (for example, the elephant head/hood on his Dumbo costume, the engineers cap on his train engineer costume, and his surgical cap with last year's doctor outfit). And what do you know?? He actually LOVED his hat this year. Except that he kept insisiting on wearing it backwards. I had to show him pictures of fireman out of various children's books in order to convince him that the brim is indeed worn on the back.
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Halloween in a New Neighborhood
D knew by mid-September that he wanted to be a mummy for Halloween. I had visions of me wrapping him up in toilet paper and then going trick-or-treating in the rain. Not a pretty scenario. Luckily we found the perfect mummy costume at a store right down the street from our new house. Scary mask included, but not shown here. While at the store, B was immediately drawn to the fireman costume. I warned him that if he wanted to be a fireman, he HAD to wear the hat. HAD TO. He has a history for wanting to wear a certain costume only to cry about not wanting to wear the hat once Halloween finally arrives (for example, the elephant head/hood on his Dumbo costume, the engineers cap on his train engineer costume, and his surgical cap with last year's doctor outfit). And what do you know?? He actually LOVED his hat this year. Except that he kept insisiting on wearing it backwards. I had to show him pictures of fireman out of various children's books in order to convince him that the brim is indeed worn on the back.
Friday, October 23, 2009
Weekly Report~ October 23, 2009
Thursday, October 22, 2009
The number 13... SO not scary!!
Thank you to everyone keeping us in your thoughts and prayers. This move has brought some major life changes our way, and although we'll miss our old house and cherish all of the memories we made there (first house, the birth of both of our boys while there, family dinners, birthday parties, and our first year of homeschooling), we're excited to move on.
Friday, October 9, 2009
Weekly Report~ October 9, 2009
D, on the other hand, seems to be in love with the actual learning and could care less about the rest of the school experience. I want to give him what is best for HIM, but that's not always an easy thing to figure out with a kid like D. He's had two more meltdowns concerning school, and continues to express the desire to be homeschooled so that he can "be taught lots of stuff and do lots of science and not just sit around playing games like I do at school". And he's so intense and adamant in his proclamations that it's hard to argue with his logic. At the same time, on an emotional level, I feel that going to school has really been helpful in teaching him to listen to/follow directions from other adults, to learn there are certain rules that need to be followed, and to learn to respect authority. He has also made a handful of friends, but he does that everywhere he goes! The other bonus of going to school is that he consistently has a well-rounded week filled with gym, art, music, reading in group settings, learning how to get along with his peers for longer periods of time, and spending less time in front of the television.
As far as afterschooling, I let him take the lead this week. The LAST thing I want to do is push him too hard, or make learning a chore. The main reason I'm supplementing with him at all is because of his love of learning and his need for moremoremore. I'd hate to kill that passion by forcing him to do a lot of unneccesary work. Here's some of what we did do throughout the week:
- Lots of nature study (October is sooooooo my favorite month!)
- Finished our books on mummies and pyramids; read about Sargon taking over Mesopotamia in SOTW1
- Writing.... this is his favorite thing at the moment. He makes books and writes stories to read to me every night. The stories are typically about a boy going on an adventure and in some way or another discovering a crystal. :)
- Two math lessons in Singapore 1A
- Reviewing common nouns & proper nouns, doing picture study & narration in FLL
No science this week. I have a few experiments planned for this weekend, as D has 4 days off of school and we'll have a lot of free time to fill. As for my little guy--B--we've had more time together with D in school all week, and it's been nice to just hang out with him. We went to the library story hour, ran errands, played together, and spent a lot of time snuggling.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Weekly Report~ October 2, 2009
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Sunday, September 27, 2009
Boys Don't Sleep.....They Recharge
Friday, September 25, 2009
Weekly Report~ September 25, 2009
However, last night he had a meltdown over something small that led to him admitting to me that he was feeling really bored with what he's learning at school, saying that they are doing stuff he did in preschool. I explained that it'll get more challenging as the year goes on, but asked him what it was he wanted to learn. He told me, "SCIENCE! And math. And how to draw. And about Egypt." Although I've been 'afterschooling' him in order to supplement his academics, I've been doing it casually. After last night's tear-fest, we spent the next hour or so doing addition drill sheets, learning the definition of a noun and memorizing the poem The Caterpillar from FLL lessons 1-4; reading a chapter in SOTW (Story of the World) about mummies and pyramids, and doing a science experiement, complete with discussion sheet. To wrap it all up, we mummified an Egyptian god.... thanks to this online BBC game: http://www.bbc.co.uk/history/ancient/egyptians/launch_gms_mummy_maker.shtml
We did more last night in an impromptu afterschooling session than we did on any one day of homeschooling last year (or at least without the complaining and procrastination that used to go along with it). D's attitude towards learning and his ability to focus has improved drastically in just a few months time.
I'll be posting my weekly report regardless of whether we do much afterschooling or not. It gives me that extra push to get online and keep an informal record of what we're doing, so that I can review it as the year goes on. I also hope to share my experience with other families who have also chosen to afterschool their children, as well as with homeschooling families who have been--and continue to be--an inspiration and support in my life. I'm looking forward to reading your blogs as well!!
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Back For More (Blogging, that is)!
In the meantime, D has started first grade at his new school, and is doing much better (socially/behaviorally) than I could've hoped. That's not to say that I haven't received a phone call (or two) from his teacher. That's not to say that D hasn't come home with a note in his backpack letting me know he "had a hard time compromising during partner reading", or that his art teacher had a tough day with him last Wednesday. But these are small fish to fry compared to what I was expecting. To my pure and utter joy, he has been waking up early every morning without complaint, and getting off the school bus every afternoon with a huge smile on his face. I keep waiting for the tears to start, like they did when he attended preschool, and like they did when I'd ask him to do his deskwork while homeschooling him last year. I'm sure there will be tears, but I am grateful for this positive start to the school year.
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
A Bittersweet Decision
He is a strong-willed, energetic, social creature who craves attention and activity. I'm only one person, in a somewhat isolated area without a lot of outside help, and I have finally come to terms with the fact that I am unable to do it alone. I have to swallow my pride to say that, because I fought tooth and nail to make it work, and it's not. It's broken. We're broken. And I don't want my relationship with my boys to suffer. Homeschooling was meant to bring us closer together, but it has become obvious that D doesn't want to learn from me, or take direction from me. At least not 24/7. Daddy sees them briefly in the mornings and again at bedtime, but every minute in between it's just us.
We told D that he'd be going to school in the fall, and he was sad. For about five minutes. We drove by the school and by the time we left the parking lot, he was asking me, "How long is it until school starts, 90 days?" and "I'm going to need a lunch box" and "Will I make friends on the school bus?". He was excited. And for all of you who know D, he doesn't get truly EXCITED about much, outside of buying new Legos and playing with his friends.
I'm sad. I feel like a dream of mine has been shattered. But admittedly, I am relieved. A huge weight has lifted from my shoulders. This decision feels right. It feels like it might just work. I'm looking forward to how these changes will affect our family life. For instance, maybe we'll do less arguing and more listening. We'll have more space from each other, so that we'll have more to give when we are together. I'll have more patience, and a clean house!! Imagine that.
In the meantime, we're wrapping up his Kindergarten year. He's done more and gone farther than I planned, so I feel like accomplished our goals. I will continue to have D read every day, and practice his handwriting and math. The classroom will only be one aspect of his life experience, but it will be one aspect that provides him with the structure, activity and socialization he's been craving. His home is where he can come for security, safety, and reassurance at the end of a hard day. As they say, "it's all good".
Friday, May 1, 2009
Weekly Report~May 1, 2009
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Weekly Report~ April 10, 2009
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY SWEET GODDAUGHTER!!! She turns the big "6" today. Unfortunately she lives across the country from us, but we'll be thinking of her regardless of the miles. Here she is with an enormous pine cone~ have you ever seen anything like it?? My little guy B would be in his GLORY if he stumbled upon this beauty.
Another week has flown by. D continues to complain about having to "do school", but quickly gets down to business now that he's earning money to buy LEGOs. It's amazing the difference we've seen in him, both with school and in his behavior around the house. He will do ANYTHING to save up money for the latest and greatest Lego product. This morning he was dressed and done with two pages of math and two pages of phonics before I even woke up. "Whatever works" has become my new motto.
Here's a quick rundown of what we've been up to:
Math~ Addition up to 20
Phonics~ "ch"
Handwriting~ Mixed in with other lessons and some 'homemade' copywork
Geography~ Russia
Science~ Plants
Reading~ OPG and library books (he's been reading to us at night before bed)
Everything Else~ Playdates, Lego, computer games and playing outside (YEAY nice weather!)
Happy Easter to everyone who celebrates! Enjoy your time together.
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Friday, March 20, 2009
Weekly Report~ March 20, 2009
It's been a busy week or two at the Tin Roof Schoolhouse, and once again it's time for a weekly report. First, I want to re-thank my sister for the adorable, embroidered pillow she sent for my birthday (see photo). It thrills me to no end. She is a well of creativity, and I love to be on the receiving end. This looks just like our house, right down to the red tin roof. So cute.
As for school, we are continuing our journey through Mexico and South America, reading related stories (The Llama's Secret, The Moon Was At a Fiesta, Tonight Is Carnaval) and finding countries on the map. D was inspired by the book Diego by Jeanette and Jonah Winter, the story of the Mexican artist Diego Rivera. He couldn't wait to wake up the next morning and draw. In math, he is reviewing addition and subtraction. Just this morning over breakfast he declared, "Hey mom, if 4+4=8, then 40+40=80, right?" That triggered a discussion about other values of 10, which turned into a discussion about dimes and money. I love how 'school' can happen anywhere, even over toast and juice at the breakfast table.
D reads everything he sees, but if you were to ask him he'd say "I hate reading". What I've learned is that actually means, "I am bored stiff with OPG but I will read just about anything else" (OPG is the book I am using to teach him reading). He's just not a workbook-y type kid. He likes color and pictures and surprises, which OPG does not offer. It's very black-and-white, matter-of-fact, and repetitious. I will continue to use it because it is definitely teaching him the rules of reading, but I've relaxed on how often we do it as long as he continues reading so many other things during the day.
The weather is slowly warming up which means we've been outside more during the day. What a blessing! We took a walk the other day and the boys collected rocks like they always do. But now that we are learning about rocks for school, D took a deeper interest in them, carefully selecting a variety of sizes and colors so that we could go home and learn about them. We followed-up by doing an experiment to show how limestone rocks are hollowed out to become caves. Sound complicated? Far from it.... it involved dissolving a piece of chalk in 1/2 cup of white vinegar. It can't get much easier than that, and the boys were fascinated with watching the chalk bubble, fizz, and disappear.
We are still attending gym class two days a week, and both boys continue to have a love/hate relationship with it. Luckily, next week is the final week and we can move on to something new. I am disappointed that they don't like the gym class more, though, because it provides such a great outlet for burning off energy, learning sports, and getting to play with other kids. Someday...someday.... we will discover something that holds D's interest for more than one class. Swimming and karate are next on our agenda. Any other suggestions?
Friday, February 27, 2009
Weekly Report~ February 27, 2009
One reason our routine has failed us lately is due to attending gym class every Tuesday and Thursday mornings. It truly takes up most of the day. By the time we get home, it's already into the afternoon. D has made a few friends there, including his new girl-friend Catherine. I am pleased as punch with this new friendship, considering that just a few weeks ago he wouldn't speak to, sit near, play with, or look at a girl. NO GIRLS ALLOWED seemed to be his motto. Luckily, that phase didn't last long and now he has a sweet new friend to show for it. It doesn't hurt that C's mommy is incredibly easy to get along with either. It's hard to find like-minded moms even among homeschooling crowds, and it's been nice to have someone to chat with and get to know while sitting through 3 hours of gym class every week! D has also been taking ice-skating lessons on the weekends, and it is a love/hate relationship. One second he's cold, his feet hurt, and he never wants to skate again. Then in the blink of an eye he's skating around the ice with a huge smile on his face. Personally, I'm looking forward to the lessons coming to an end. It's been a challenge, to say the least.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Housebound
When DH and I got married, New England was hit by the remnants of Hurricane Lily, leaving our hotel water logged and our cruise to Bermuda delayed by one day. When I turned 30 years old, my mom and I drove through a blizzard to get to New York City for our planned weekend away. Last year, we were supposed to go to our friend's house (who we had not spent time with in waaayyyy too long) for a football game, and B and I both ended up with the stomach flu. You get the idea.
This week it's a bit more simplistic---B is sick with a head cold---but the result is the same. We're housebound. No "socialization" for D due to a missed playdate, no physical exercise due to missing gym class, and another day of playing board games and doing arts and crafts. It's a good thing I'm a total hermit and love to be home, because I'd be out of my mind otherwise. Having said that, even a homebody like myself can only go so long staring at the same four walls. I think this situation calls for a nice, long nap with my sick little guy.
Friday, February 6, 2009
Weekly Report~ February 6, 2009
As for the rest of the family, DH enjoyed his trip to Florida with his father and came home with fun goodies for everyone. He gave D a real, working pirate pocket watch that thrilled D to pieces. It's also been useful in teaching D more about telling time. B has been flourishing lately in so many ways, especially with his wanting to "write" in his notebook all day long and scribble pictures. He loves using his scissors and markers (Daddy even had to make a special trip to the store just to buy him more since his wore out), and continues to love play-doh. As for me?? Well, LOST has started again, I finally dug out my scrapbook supplies and photos (first time since before the holidays), and I sold my first item ever on Ebay. Nothing too exciting, but like I said, it's February in New England.
Friday, January 30, 2009
Weekly Report~ January 30, 2009
And the snow just keeps on coming!! We had a 'snow day' on Wednesday and spent the day building Zoobs, reading the rest of The Invention of Hugo Cabret (part one), and playing in the snow. I haven't been keeping up with my weekly reports lately due to transitioning to my new (awesome) computer. I am now located downstairs right in the middle of all the action, which I love. But I've yet to install Word, Excel, and my photo software..... which are the three main things I use for recording/planning our school and blogging. In the meantime, I've snuck back upstairs to the old computer in hopes of posting a quick report.
Thursday, January 15, 2009
Weekly Report~ January 16, 2009
I came downstairs yesterday morning to find the boys side by side, D playing his Leapster and B "working on my computer" as he would say. If you know my kids, you would realize how rare moments like this are. Although they *do* seem to be happening a bit more often lately. After awhile I told D to turn off his game and get ready for school. He said, "Just one more game, mom. Besides, I'm doing math so this IS school". I couldn't argue with that logic, and gave in to the 'just one more game' request.
This week of school has been fantastic. I'm not quite sure why the change in attitude, but D has done his work quickly and neatly. When he puts his mind to it, his lessons get done in less than an hour. Maybe he's finally realizing that when his work gets done, it leaves more time for playing. Another difference this week is that we started a homeschool gym class. It meets twice a week for 1.5 hours at a time. I think getting out of the house, being around other kids, and running around playing sports for a few hours was just what the boys needed to burn off all that pent-up energy that's been brewing.
Here's a summary of our week:
Handwriting~ Cc, Dd, Ee
ETC~ Lesson 8, began Lesson 9
Reading~ OPG Lesson 85-87; LSLF "Funny Ann"
Math~ P.66, Lesson 18, Review 1, Power Math Unit 11 (p. 211-213)
Social Studies~ Read Bimwili & The Zimwi; Mirandy and Brother Wind with narration; mapwork
Science~ Began unit on Astronomy: Read Sun, Moon and Stars and crafts (made a space telescope)
Music~ Listened to classical music and The Musical Life of Gustav Mole book/CD
Religion~ Bible stories
Friday, January 9, 2009
Weekly Report~ January 9, 2009
Our first week back to school after a couple weeks off for the holidays was filled with activity. Admittedly, Monday was disasterous. D wanted nothing to do with anything even remotely related to school. Somehow we managed to get through that day, and the rest of the week flew by. We spent an afternoon at the Children's Museum where D played with anyone and everyone while B played on the computer designing kaleidoscopic images. Wednesday and Thursday were snowy days so we had some much-needed outdoor time in between lessons.
We are currently studying Africa and the boys really seem to be enjoying the stories as well as the African Playground CD I've been playing for them. D especially enjoyed By The Baobab Tree (book on CD with accompanying song) by John Archambault, so we expanded on his interest by making our own baobab tree and putting on a show with our new puppet theater. I love being able to go off on little tangents now and again when D shows excitement about something.
As for the core subjects, D is reviewing counting by 10's to 100, simple addition, and money. He continues to read from OPG, about a page per day. This week he learned about "ai" blends, along with homophones such as made/maid and plane/plain. And finally, he continues working through his handwriting book and ETC (phonics).
Homeschoolers Don't Get Snow Days
Winter has hit New England hard this year, resulting in an abundance of power outages, icy roads, and snow days for the school kids. It's a nice feeling to wake up to a blizzard and not have to worry about whether or not school is cancelled, and how dangerous the roads will be. We just carry on with our day as usual~ play a bit in the morning, get ready for the day, do some schoolwork, take a break, eat some lunch, do some more work and then play, play, play. This week we spent a generous amount of time outdoors, which is so refreshing after being cooped up inside so much last month. The boys got these nifty snow toys for Christmas and they spent an entire afternoon building forts and perfecting the art of snowball making (and throwing). The weather is calling for more snow flurries today and tomorrow, and I say, "Bring it on!"